There is no answer. There are only two ways for the mind to be: full of questions and empty if questions. Maturity is coming to a point where we can live without answers; that is what maturity is. And to live without answers is the greatest and most courageous act. Then we are no longer a child. A child goes on asking questions, wanting answers for everything.
Try Avoid saying ' Life is Okay " Okay is not an ecstatic word; it is just lukewarm. So feel blessed-and it is a question of feeling. Whatever we feel, we become. It is our responsibility. This is what it means when we say, "It is our own karma." Karma means our own action.
There are no outside causes of happiness or unhappiness; these things are just excuses. By and by we come to realize that it is something inside us that goes on changing, that has nothing to do with outside circumstances.
When Charles Darwin wrote his thesis about evolution and the survival of the fittest, another man, Prince Kropotkin if Russia, was writing a quite diametrically opposite thesis: that evolution happens through cooperation. People have not heard much about Prince Kropotkin, and his thesis is far superior to Darwin's.